Twink Dating

Should an older guy date twinks?

Should an older guy date twinks? Our motto is do whatever you want as long as it is fully consentual.

There is a few things that you may consider: If you just want his smooth body or whether you are after a relationship. If you want an open or closed relationship.

Personally I am satisfied with just sex; it makes it easy to have different guys. I can just have fun when it suits me and I don't have to deal with jealousy issues. Personally I am not a people person so I prefer not to get into relationships.

Most people are built differently and crave love. If you're older you may be on a different maturity level than your twink. Make sure that you can cope with that. If you are young at heart this may not be a problem.

You have to consider what your friends and family think of your boyfriend. Some people will be understanding, others won't be. If you don't care what people think then disregard this concern.

If you are in a corporate setting you may get judgements from conservatives who tend to be older. Keep your home and work life separate is probably your best option.

Some people claim that young people can be particularly dumb and these people may be your friends. If they put down your guy it's probably best to keep the two away from each other if you can. From my experience many older people can lack intelligence too and I'd rather be in bed with a hot young student that is learning software development (been there) even if I factored in intelligence when dating.

One additional complication can be if you have a son (or grandson) that is of similar age. I am not in this position so cannot advise you. Personally I would just keep the people involved apart if this caused a major issue though encouraging them to get along would be the easier option.

It gets even more complicated if your job relies on you being a public figure. However celebrities dating someone much younger than themselves is not uncommon but it depends on your industry. Personally, I don't think that someone's careers should affect their private life but obviously you need to make this decision for yourself.

It is possible that your twink will come to rely on you seeing as you are most likely more financially stable. If you want your twink to stay treat him with respect. If you don't care if he stay treating him well ensures he won't bad mouth you to his hot friends who you probably wouldn't mind hooking up with.

Another concern are the different life stages of each person that is involved in the relationship. Some older people are focused on getting the mortgage paid and if your partner earns significantly less this could be an issue. If you are above water you may view the sacrifice as worth it.

If you don't mind slightly older guys consider an asian guy. Most of them are naturally smooth and younger looking. I dated a half asian for a few years, he was very cute with a smooth chest.

Some older guys might be willing to go smooth and look decent. Some might be more in-line with your personality if that is important. It depends what you want but this may also be an option if there is not a lot of younger guys around.

Personally I like traveling to big cities because there are more chances of hooking up with a hot young guy.

Having a mooth chest is an important part of being twinky and might want to make it clear early if you expect you guy's chests to stay smooth. You should also communicate your preference on tattoos or piercings so you don't get sudden surprises. As always be kind but in my opinion if you can find a way to communicate these things without offending you should probably take it.

Your partner needs to decide if shaving or waxing is right for him and this could be another article. I asked a friend and he said waxing is more efficient but can hurt more. Shaving needs to be done more often but if he's willing to put in the time maybe this is better.

Waxing is also prone to have ingrown hairs left over and shaving is considered a more clean look. You do stay smoother for longer but it can be expensive.

I personally have a naturally smooth chest but I probably couldn't tolerate the pain. Though less maintenance with waxing could be a good thing. Ultimately I would probably choose shaving.

You should also communicate with your partner if you like him to keep in shape. The best way to do this is to limit junk food around the house. You could just cook your partner healthy meals if you have the time as diet is more important when it comes to keeping a good body.

Sugary drinks should be avoided, particularly the ones that have caffeine. For best results you should also avoid all processed carbs (flour, white rice etc) because they lower energy levels. Some food/beverages also have addictive qualities and some can even increase your hunger levels, you should do further research.

Some people tend to eat when they're bored. People often see wasting food as wasting money and will try to eat too much. Identifying these behaviours could be helpful.

Obsessively going to the gym might be a similar behaviour that you may wish to stop. After all I imagine that you want him to use his energy on you, or maybe that's just me! If he eats in moderation there is no reason he needs to spend most of his spare time at the gym and I would tell him that.

So do you want an open or closed relationship? It is up to you of course but your partner may want to experience guys his own age. If you're mainly after his body perhaps letting him have sex with others will allow you to watch or join in.

I once tried an exclusive relationship but that didn't last so me and my partner switched to open. It was long distance but I expect that I would have required an open relationship regardless.

Many young guys like to party at the local gay club. This may not be your thing and if that is the case your best option is not going or going occasionally. You just have to put up with him staggering home on a Saturday night, you might want him in a spare room or couch if you don't want to be disturbed.

You may struggle to keep up in other ways. I can say anti depressants can affect performance; there is a reason I stopped taking them after a week of taking them. Whatever the reason there is probably treatments available and the more you do it the easier it becomes.

If you are serious about a young guy you have to keep in mind that he may leave eventually. Unfortunately I don't have any solutions other than what I said earlier; treat him well. Again this is not a problem if you are mainly after the physical aspect as you can use this opportunity to trade him in.

You may be concerned about being taken advantage of particularly if you are wealthy. It's a good idea not to show or advertise your wealth for the first few dates if possible. However if you are not after a serious relationship then it may be a sliding scale what you may be able to put up with.

Don't be a door mat but if you are enjoying being with a cute young guy some sacrifices may be worthwhile.

Don't forget that attraction to younger guys is completely natural. Anybody who says otherwise is ignorant or jealous. While not everyone views as it being socially acceptable that's their problem.

As long as your twinks are on the same page I say go and enjoy them. I certainly am at nearly 33 and I hope that I can for decades.

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