Twink Dating

Do twinks like older guys?

Do twinks like older guys? It depends on the twink but some definitely do. So if you are older you can enjoy younger guys.

Many people like guys who know what they want. This would describe many older guys. They have experience and are generally stable in their careers so they can focus on enjoying life.

Many older people can be non-judgmental and charming. If you have these personality traits you could offer a welcome change from the pressures of being a young guy in today's world.

Sometimes the judgment comes from the family or culture; at the time of this writing being gay is not universally accepted. You could a chance for someone to be who they really are.

Some young guys are keen to have security. Most guys their age cannot offer that. If you don't mind being the provider this will give you a chance to be with a young hot guy.

Even if they are finally stable they find your financial stability a change from wondering if a bill can be split. A big source of stress is budgeting, having a higher earner as their partner might be less stressful, even if they are a higher earner themselves.

It is a freedom issue; a young guy can work full time and not make enough to get by. Stepping in as a provider could relieve his stress. This could be perfect if you are mainly after fun. He doesn't need to be after money to be able to enjoy the freedoms that come with dating an older man.

If you find someone that is particularly ambitious he may enjoy being around a successful guy. You could open up doors for him, give him connections or work with him.

If you are working with him ensure that everyone is protected legally. You don't want a mess. I once let my boyfriend use me for a business but insisted on a contract so he was liable; it was lucky I did as he later dumped me.

It could be that you are in a position to help him build up his business without being liable. For example as a web developer I could probably build a twink a website to earn thousands per month in commissions for him. Of course if you want a more genuine relationship you are probably better off avoiding the business angle.

Many guys like to travel. If you have been to many places before you could make the perfect tour guide. Perhaps you two can have fun of trips together; I did this for a few years when I was in a long distance relationship with a slightly younger half-asian guy.

Experience in the area can also be an advantage if your guy is new to your state or country.

Younger guys at clubs can be a bit dramatic, though some aren't. You can allow them to break away from whatever drama they have going on. Though you can ignore this if you don't mind hanging around a younger crowd; I personally don't mind.

It is not just drama; some may just want a more mature guy than the guys at the local gay club.

Older guys have a lot of stories to share. Some guys like hearing them. This is something a younger guy cannot get from a guy his own age.

Guys also like if you're interested in what they do. Many people their age are competing for attention, trying to get people to follow them or like their posts. Having someone give them attention and showing an interest in their life could feel good.

You are probably experienced in the bedroom. Some younger guys like this. From my experience with younger guys some are not the best so I imagine having someone who knows what they are doing could be worthwhile.

Though I will always be into twinks but some guys are just prefer older men; that's just how biology works. Some like grey in a person's hair and some are into the silver fox look. So you just have to keep trying until you find someone who is willing.

Some guys like being dominated and some are into daddies. This has some scientific explanation that is not important and I can't remember. If you are into this kind of activity it's again just a matter of finding someone who suits your desires and vice versa.

Some guys just like to please in bed; you could be a perfect candidate for them. I know that I always appreciate attention from much younger guys and someone like that would suit me well!

Experience can be used to make a guy feel special. It is possible that some younger guys can be self-centered and some guys may want a change from dating such types. This can give you a chance to really make him feel desired.

This also works if you get one of those self-centered guys and are willing to put up with him. If he is hot and you are mainly after his body it could be worth it, at least it would be worth it for me. If you want something more genuine I am sure that you can find twinks that are fun to be around both inside and outside the bedroom.

This really is not meant to paint twinks in a negative light. I have had many of them and most are decent people. However some people prefer older personalities so there is hope if you are older and prefer younger guys like me.

Many guys are open-minded and think that age is just a number. Others may be more comfortable about dating older guys after the first date.

The trick is to find willing guys. Dating apps and websites can potentially find you such guys. I have even had some success, more so than the clubs.

Many younger guys who wanted to hookup have even approached me on Facebook. I will say that they were not what I was looking for. Some were younger than me but not what I regard as twinks; I'm fussy!

It is true that caution is good but if you really want a younger guy you have to put yourself out there.

You should probably be prepared for a fair amount of rejection but in time you will probably get someone young and hot to have fun with. If you don't like rejection just post a profile or two and let guys come to you. This requires patience and there are no guarantees.

You're probably better off using local sites, they are less likely to have fake profiles. A willing twink on the other side of the country or world is also not much good. I did have a guy in a different city but obviously it's better if you are both in the same city.

Age gaps are not uncommon for gays; maybe it's because there are much fewer gay guys than straight men. When I first started going to the local gay club the 50 something owner was dating a 20 something twink; the twink was blond, skinny and hot. There are celebrity gay couples with age gaps for example Tom Daley who is a famous British diver started dating a 40 something year old in his early 20s.

So hopefully you know now that if you want a twink you can probably get one.

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